012. 5 Life Lessons from Mary Jane


Each hour-long episode of Being Mary Jane peels the layers back on Mary Jane Paul, a beautifully imperfect woman who is struggling to get her real life as in order as the one she projects on screen for her midday cable news talk show Talk Back Live. After the first season of this made for television pilot movie turned television series captivated its audience, we were all left wanting more and more of Miss Mary Jane, formerly known as Pauletta Patterson. As the show gives a very candid look into the life of Mary Jane as a strong, successful, and single black woman navigating the afflictions of life, it strategically portrays four key aspects of her life: her love life, her work life, her family life, and her dearest alone and personal moments. On the heels of the finale of the second season of Being Mary Jane, we continue to allow Mary Jane into our homes. When season two concluded with a cliffhanger we were all relieved to hear BET Networks had picked up the show for a guaranteed third season. Undoubtedly every black woman, or all women for that matter (As Mary Jane stated there is an “ugly black woman” in every woman who is fighting to be heard.) can relate to Mary Jane in one way or another. In some instances the show becomes almost uncomfortable and unbearable to watch because certain episodes hit so close to home with many of us. Mary Jane may still have a lot to learn about love, men and family, but there are a few valuable life lessons women can learn from her, too. See what lessons can be garnered from Miss Mary Jane baby!


Life Happens


Much like every other modern day woman, we see Mary Jane dealing with the obscurities of work and personal life balance. The ever-ambitious journalist struggles to prove her value with Talk Back Live and increasing her show’s ratings in the process. When Mary Jane is not working, she’s very involved with her family and close friends. She does her best to always support them and is always willing to offer her opinion about their individual journeys — even if they don’t want to hear it — which is most of the time. At the end of the day, Mary Jane has their best interests at heart, and in turn they have hers, which keeps her grounded. Life is full of unpredictable and sometimes even inconvenient events. You have to learn to just roll with the punches and learn to navigate your way through the circumstances life throws your way. Furthermore, you have to understand sometimes in life bad things happen to good people, but rest assure even on a bad day, it is still a good day.


Money nor Success Brings True Happiness.


Mary Jane is a beautiful, strong, successful, and well-educated woman, she has her on news show, she’s very good at what she does, and very personable. She appears to have it all, yet, we see her on a journey searching for true happiness and fulfillment. Chronicling Mary Jane’s story we can learn that in order to achieve true happiness and fulfillment, you must live a life with meaning and purpose. You can buy the material things, even fundamental, but if you are not living a life with meaning you will always be trying to fill a void in your soul. Happiness dwells in the soul.