042. First Date Etiquette that Makes You Desirable

As you may call, one of the actions on my vision board is to date more and open myself up to relationships in 2016. As I pursue this aspect of life, be prepared for more candid dating and relationship posts.


Now that I am jumping back on the dating scene, I have been reminded at how awkward and intense dating can be. As I sat down with my friends for advice, I realized how we approach courting with different perspectives and objectives in mind.




A first date is the most important one, first impressions are everything and in most cases can make or break your future with your suitor. My friends and I have compiled our top first date guidelines to help optimize your date night experience. Don’t be anxious follow these tips to ace your first date.



Dress to Impress not to Undress


Guys are physical creatures, while your connection should follow with substance, appearance accounts for 60 percent of a man’s perception on a date. Choose your date night attire carefully, consider the activity and atmosphere of your date and dress accordingly.



Don’t underdress or dress too revealing. You want your outfit to say “Hello I’m here,” not “Hey, come and get me!” Make sure you dress to impress but also dress comfortable. And by comfortable I do not mean your favorite oversized sports sweater. You want to dress comfortable to the extent your mind is at ease and you are not constantly tugging at your blouse or yanking your dress down. Avoid wearing anything you cannot breathe in, walk in or eat in.


Another bit of advice is the wear your favorite color or something people often compliment you in. This trick helps boost your confidence and ups your sex appeal.



Show Respect


Show your date you appreciate and respect his gestures by being on time and showing gratification.


Yeah I know you want to be fashionably late. Being fashionably late may make a good impression, but being on time makes a great first impression. I know stuff happens, if for any reason you are running late, take a moment to text or call your date to inform him of your estimated time of arrival. Be positive, courteous and respectful, not only to your date but the staff at the restaurant or venue.


Let your date lead. Show him that you trust him (in regards to your date that is), let him decide where you go or what activity you will enjoy for your first date. If he offers to pay (which he should) let him do so, don’t offer to go Dutch or split the bill. I don’t care what men’s magazines say! If he asks you on a date it is his responsibility to pay. If you insist on contributing to the bill, offer to leave the tip instead. If he declines your gesture, don’t fuss about it. Let him cover it, feminist won’t hate you.